The Boss Chic life

Often times we see women on social media posting a sharing photos that can seem to resemble a modern fairy tail. In some instaces these individuals have PR and glam squads who work endlessly to create the brand of success and glam. Behind the so called “Boss chic” brand is many layers that lie beneath the surface. Before you  idolized a complete stranger, think about it this way. Behind every victory was once a victim of something.  There is never a message without a “mess”    At some point.

Most of the Boss chics has an amazing testimony. Most have had or has struggled/ struggling  with past or present obstacle. For myself, I struggled in my self esteem for years. I didn’t feel pretty and behind it all I wanted to appear whole. I never wanted to show weakness or fears to anyone because folks can be so judgmental and pressed to share your flaws. The pressure of success constanly tries the reality of the authenthic you and the struggles of owning you authentic voice. The goal of perfection is distant. Society always has a new standard of what beauty looks like, and what size dress you should wear and the length of your hair, or even the size of your backside. So many social shares and likes to keep up with.. what’s  the perfect angle to shoot your next selfie. It can be really overwhelming.

 

The truth of matter a lot of Boss Chic have a heart of gold. Many of them seem stand-off ish because of the moving and takers we have encountered. It can be hard sometimes to bring people into your circle because  people sometimes have hidden agendas or bad motives. I have had folks around me simply to find out my traded secrets.  However, No one can truly predict the intentions of a person, that’s why having Godly intuition comes in, because it can save you a lot of headache. And If I am in doubt I simply ask Holy Spirit for guidance.

 

Friendships with Boss Chics

It can be difficult because of time restraints.

They may not make it to every event you host, but they still love you.

They may not remember every important date in your life, Send them reminders as often  needed.

They truly care about everyone, yet they are super busy.

While others are sleep, he are working sometimes at 1 AM on a project

Sometimes we are not avoiding conversation..we are just sleepy

(forgive us) lol

 

Boss Chics need:

Encouragement

understanding

compassion

complements

support

You may think they get these often, however we don’t. Sometimes we pour out so much energy into others that we can get overwhelmed and forget to take care of ourselves.

Writing this blog has inspired me to continue with transparent ministry.

My goal for this article is to give you a inside examination of The Boss Chic and how we love and respect our passion that we are willing to risk it all for the betterment of society and business.

 

 

Forgiveness

Happy Monday!  My current read is the Total Forgiveness Experience by R.T Kendall.

Last year it felt like I lost so many friends, but after much prayer and fasting God revealed the “WHY”. Often times we think and point the finger at everyone else, but the fact of the matter it’s us. I know it hurts to hear that.  I can admit that I  had undeveloped areas in my  life that cause me to fail in relationships time after time.

I can honestly say I have  100% made the area my #1 priority to change.

We can’t help and heal the world if we are broken ourselves.

Take the opportunity to unplug for everything and fix the undeveloped areas of your life!

What happens when we don’t forgive?

  • Prideful
  • Angry
  • Resentful
  • Bitter
  • Vengeful
  • Hostile
  • Judgmental
  • Lonely
  • Fearful
  • Joyless
  • Defensive
  • Exhausted
  • Blaming
  • Irrational
  • Violent
  • Manipulative

 

Can you identify with any of these emotions?

I had a situation with a friendship where I was falsely accused of something. I couldn’t believe that person could lie on me for no apparent reason. What did I do to deserve this situation. My character was under attack and I was so hurt that it nearly broke me down. Not because I was guilty, but it was because the person who did it was a person who I personally gave value and weight in my life. It took everything in me not to lose my cool and want to revert to sinful ways. But because I know God and know that I did nothing intentionally wrong to that person, I decided to let God fight for me. He created in me a heart for people and often times I has been hurt because I allowed people to come into my life before checking them out first. Being nice is one thing but being someone’s doormat is not the will of God.

What to do next?

Invite God into the situation. He personally knows both parties.

Ask God to forgive you ,if there was any part that you contributed to the situation. Sometimes shutting down is a sin because it insulates and causes a divide in that relationship. Space is important ,but only for a season to collect your thoughts and comfort  the issue ( in love) for change. Insulation can ruin a covenant relationship especially  in a marriage. Be careful not to get missing and stop communicating.

Secondly, pray for them to see their part in the situation. The heart of the King is in the hand of the Lord. So don’t be afraid to ask for God’s help in the matter. Total forgiveness about you and it’s a process that should not be taken for granted.

Lastly, try not to share the situation with a weak or emotional undeveloped person. Please don’t go to that kind of person, because it won’t end well. I have been there and I tried to find comfort in the situation but after sharing my intimate feelings with an undeveloped person and they told me ” I would curse them out, Don’t let them get away with that, get even, don’t be stupid” Lord knows that didn’t make me feel any better. So every time I thought about releasing it, I felt “stupid” for letting it happen to me. But I promise you that I am Not stupid and as the bible states

I am with you and I will never leave you or forsake you, I am with you until the ends of the earth.

So If God is with me That’s all that we NEED..

 

Forgive and live in victory!

 

In my latest Book 30 Day 30 Minutes Visionary Journal: Developing the Finisher Within I discuss how unforgiveness can hinder you from finishing your goals because unforgiveness steals your focus.  This book is your step by guide to living life in freedom and abundance.

Order your copy today of this life changing book.

4 Tips to Stay Focused in Business

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Just like every other thing in life, you’re bound to fail in your various businesses if you lose or fail to remain focused. This is the reason why it’s very essential to maintain absolute focus with your business, after all you established the business with certain objectives in mind. What with the many distractions in life, you will definitely fail on achieving your business objectives if you’re not focused.
As a business owner, you need to ask yourself a couple of questions. What are your reasons for establishing your business? Did you establish the business because you wish to be your own boss and make your own business decisions? Is it your target to have the liberty of choosing your own working hours? Many things such as friends, family, home chores and other things could easily get you distracted from achieving your business goals.
Here are 4 tips that will help you to stay focused as it pertains to running a successful business.
1. Don’t forget why you started your business in the very first place. These reasons must always be alive in your mind all the time. Your business is not going to make money instantly and any plan you have that you think guarantees immediate results is enough distractions already.
Succeeding with your business needs enthusiasm, drive and hardwork. Your business won’t be successful for long if you lose focus and forget why you started your business in the first place.
2. Your business is really a job, and that means you have to handle it like one. You might find that family and friends might drop by for social calls once in a while, simply because they know where to find you. A lot of people don’t really understand the real idea behind establishing a business. Your family and friends wouldn’t be visiting you, if you were to be working a certain job, because they would know you’ll be busy and won’t have time for them. Same goes to your business. Treat it as a real job and let them know you’re busy until you’re able to hire more hands. It is necessary from the very beginning to stand firm, do not let family and friends run you over.
Remember, you started the business with a goal in mind. There will always be time to socialize, but not when you’re busy attending to your business!
3. Many people start their own business so that they can handle their time by themselves and possible spend more time with family. However, don’t get it twisted, you’re bound to work more hours during the starter-phase of your business. Therefore, it is vital that you schedule working hours separate from your other non business activities.
4. Oftentimes, you’ll realize that as your business becomes more busy, that a lot of time is squandered on business activities that are not productive. It’s then that you might wish to think about hiring a third party to help out with some tasks.
In case your time is spent more profitably writing advertising copies or posts to promote your new business, but rather you’re tending to the paperwork and answering the phone, then it’s definitely time to hire a helping hand. You could possibly free up several hours each week, enabling you time to concentrate on the productive business activities.
The success of your business is in entirely in your hands. The more effort and the hard work you put in, the higher the benefits will be. Constantly remind yourself why you established the business in the first place, stay dedicated and focused, and you’ll surely succeed.

Stop Suicide

15 Celebrities in 2014 committed suicide, 15!!

Did you know?

Every 15 minutes someone takes their life which means someone’s mom, dad, sister, brother loses a friend, husband, etc.

How can suicide be avoided?

Ask for help.

Don’t allow your situation to make you feel trapped.

Avoid isolation.

By yourself you’re unprotected.

With a friend you can face the worst.

Can you round up a third?

A three-stranded rope isn’t easily snapped.

(Ecclesiastes 4:12 MSG)

Don’t allow shame.

In the Lord, you can trust and seek refuge.

He will not put you to shame or disappoint you;

He can deliver you in His righteousness.

(Psalm 31:1 AMPC)

You matter to God.

God is our Refuge and Strength, a very present and well-proved help in trouble. (Psalm 46:1 AMPC)

I encourage you today to pray for your family, fiends, leaders, etc.

You matter, You matter, You are not a mistake.


The ABC’s of Recognizing Depression                                                                            The ABC’s of Fighting Depression

Avoidance of human contact,physical activity,                                                                         Awareness of where you are. Avoid isolation.

Beating yourself up, feeling victimized,                                                                                    Boldness to ask for help. Be intentional about changing your life.

Comparison, competition                                                                                                        Connection. Celebrate your accomplishments.


National Suicide Prevention Hotline

1-800-273-8255

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Push Into Purpose Event: It’s Your Time!

The PK Girls Push into Purpose Event was truly live changing! So many were motivated to step into purpose and launch into new dimensions in life.  I have received so many testimonies of breakthrough. It is my hearts desire to pour into the lives of others. We are called to greatness, set apart for a special purpose and destined for success. PK Girls! we rolled out the pink carpet, just as as way of saying “We honor you ladies!”

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Will your mission die?

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May 1st.

Adventures in Missions trip to Antigua, Guatemala.

As we all snap a quick proud photo in front of the Convent that was closed after the great earthquake in 1976. I could only think about the builders of this huge structure, the architect of draw the 1st blue print, and the nuns who lived here over 50 years ago. So many lives were changed here and the history behind the wall.

This experiences left a great mark on my  heart to live for the future and to build each brick of my life with the hope and faith that it would leave a generational mark that will last though out history.  As I travel to different places across the world I often imagine the life of my shero Mother Teresa.

 

Mother Teresa was the founder of the Order of the Missionaries of Charity, a Roman Catholic congregation of women dedicated to helping the poo
Mother Teresa – A Message from God (TV-14; 01:13) After receiving a message from God, Mother Teresa gave her life to the poor.

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Synopsis

Baptized on August 27, 1910, in Skopje, Macedonia, Mother Teresa taught in India for 17 years before she experienced her 1946 “call within a call” to devote herself to caring for the sick and poor. Her order established a hospice; centers for the blind, aged, and disabled; and a leper colony. She was summoned to Rome in 1968, and in 1979 received the Nobel Peace Prize for her humanitarian work.

Early Life

Catholic nun and missionary Mother Teresa was born circa August 26, 1910 (her date of birth is disputed), in Skopje, the current capital of the Republic of Macedonia. On August 27, 1910, a date frequently cited as her birthday, she was baptized as Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu. Mother Teresa’s parents, Nikola and Dranafile Bojaxhiu, were of Albanian descent; her father was an entrepreneur who worked as a construction contractor and a trader of medicines and other goods. The Bojaxhius were a devoutly Catholic family, and Nikola Bojaxhiu was deeply involved in the local church as well as in city politics as a vocal proponent of Albanian independence.

In 1919, when Mother Teresa was only 8 years old, her father suddenly fell ill and died. While the cause of his death remains unknown, many have speculated that political enemies poisoned him. In the aftermath of her father’s death, Mother Teresa became extraordinarily close to her mother, a pious and compassionate woman who instilled in her daughter a deep commitment to charity.

Although by no means wealthy, Drana Bojaxhiu extended an open invitation to the city’s destitute to dine with her family. “My child, never eat a single mouthful unless you are sharing it with others,” she counseled her daughter. When Mother Teresa asked who the people eating with them were, her mother uniformly responded, “Some of them are our relations, but all of them are our people.”

Religious Calling

Mother Teresa attended a convent-run primary school and then a state-run secondary school. As a girl, Mother Teresa sang in the local Sacred Heart choir and was often asked to sing solos. The congregation made an annual pilgrimage to the chapel of the Madonna of Letnice atop Black Mountain in Skopje, and it was on one such trip at the age of 12 that Mother Teresa first felt a calling to a religious life. Six years later, in 1928, an 18-year-old Agnes Bojaxhiu decided to become a nun and set off for Ireland to join the Loreto Sisters of Dublin. It was there that she took the name Sister Mary Teresa after Saint Thérèse of Lisieux.

A year later, Mother Teresa traveled on to Darjeeling, India for the novitiate period; in May 1931, Mother Teresa made her First Profession of Vows. Afterward she was sent to Calcutta, where she was assigned to teach at Saint Mary’s High School for Girls, a school run by the Loreto Sisters and dedicated to teaching girls from the city’s poorest Bengali families. Mother Teresa learned to speak both Bengali and Hindi fluently as she taught geography and history and dedicated herself to alleviating the girls’ poverty through education.

On May 24, 1937, she took her Final Profession of Vows to a life of poverty, chastity and obedience. As was the custom for Loreto nuns, she took on the title of “mother” upon making her final vows and thus became known as Mother Teresa. Mother Teresa continued to teach at Saint Mary’s, and in 1944 she became the school’s principal. Through her kindness, generosity and unfailing commitment to her students’ education, she sought to lead them to a life of devotion to Christ. “Give me the strength to be ever the light of their lives, so that I may lead them at last to you,” she wrote in prayer.

If anyone ask me where I Kellie headed, My only reply ” In the footsteps of Jesus. And who on earth life’s holds my greatest inspiration, my reply “Mother Teresa”.

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